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Jezebel, in our society/ Spirit of Ahab
The Jezebel spirit is born of witchcraft
and rebellion. This demon is one of the
most common spirits in operation today, both in the church and in the world, and
it is a powerful enemy of the body of Christ. She operates freely on sincere
believers whose hearts are for God individually, and has also attained positions
of power as powers and principalities within the Church. This spirit establishes
its stronghold primarily in women; however, many men have been victimized by it
as well, where it functions as a "controlling" spirit.
It is at the root of feminism and remember the feminist movement did not start
in the 1960's it started in the Garden of Eden right after the fall.
The first step in Jezebel's work is to control her victim by seduction. She will
use flattery, smooth prophetic sayings, pleasant words and seducing tears. She
views children in a marriage as tools and weapons to manipulate hubby and
She knows how to use deep emotional hurts and wounds to manipulate and control
as she creates apparent deep ties with others. Jezebel loves to pull people unto
herself and away from those who can truly speak into their lives. Jezebel flows
best in a whirlwind of confusion and turmoil, where she works best.
The Jezebel is extremely authoritarian ("bossy") by nature, though subtly with
the low profile type. She is easily offended if her authority is questioned, and
will often respond with extreme anger at even the slightest offence. She demands
blind loyalty. This is why any man who tries to exert control is called an
Jezebel uses other people as objects, where it suits her need, to gain control,
influence and power. Once she has gained the control desired, she generally
rejects and tosses the people aside. If they are in her family, she does this
Jezebel hates men and majors in destroying them. She cannot have a true Godly
relationship with men; because her desire is to strip them of all their
perceived power and then destroy them, to emasculate them emotionally and
Jezebels revile (despise and show no respect for) authority over her. Building
on "dislike of authority" (especially of men since they are frequently the
authority figure) coupled with rebellion, she hates anyone placed in authority
over her (particularly men), and seeks to destroy them and take their power.
Jezebel sees herself as the "goddess on the pedestal".
Jezebel is very possessive and domineering; she wants to control over others.
Jezebel loves power, "Give me, give me, give me." You see, money is not really
the issue with this spirit; it's Power and Authority that she's after. She likes
to be in control of others life because she draws her strength from controlling
others. She spiritually drains her victims. She uses faults or weaknesses she
perceives in the person she is attempting to control to create feelings of shame
or guilt, and therefore ultimately submission to her will. She also often uses
fear and intimidation to manipulate others into submission to her.
She uses self-pity and her own weaknesses to manipulate another into submitting
to her out of compassion or pity. Feeling sorry for Jezebel, is not compassion,
She is the "damsel in distress" that will destroy any "Knight in Shining Armour"
that tries to rescue her.
Jezebel's view of children is perverted. She says she loves them, but she really
doesn't even know how to love them, using them as weapons to advance her own
selfish needs. Children are simply pawns in her power and control games. Indeed
the trend now all over the Western world is to have very few children, if any. A
Jezebel Feminist said: "The most merciful thing a large family can do to one of
its infant members is to kill it."
What about the Spirit of Ahab?
One thing to be noted in these days is that in general there are more women in
church than men. This occurs when the "spiritual and natural" head of the family
is the women. Men have the tendency to "run to the hills" when women infringe
upon their roles.
The spirit of Ahab is a weak and emasculated figure, indeed the majority of
modern men are under that spirit, enslaved to their women. There is an adage
that says: "There are two kind of people in this world: those who rule and those
that are ruled, if you do not rule you are ruled".
The couple Jezebel and Ahab represent very well our present society.
It is Jezebel that was the more spiritual, it was her that took the leading
role, Jezebel used Ahab's emotional stresses to endear herself to him, it was
this woman that drove her husband to do what she wanted, she was ruling the
roost in every aspect. Is not that a picture of our Democratic culture?
But what happens when the woman takes the leading role that God had prescribed
If a woman plays her husband's role in directing the family, he will lose his
natural drive to bear responsibility.
When a woman takes the lead, she is playing the masculine role. Unless her
husband fights her for supremacy, he must assume second place. And men who are
forced into subjection to their wives tend to be angry, dejected and retreat
When a husband steps into a spiritual role at his wife's command, he becomes
vulnerable to her guidance in that role. This is against God's directives and
the nature He gave, and often brings conflict in the family and in the church.
Many men turn their heads when they see their wives stepping out of their God
given role. These men would rather not have to deal with the stone-cold anger
they would receive from their wives if they offered any resistance. Have you
seen that behaviour here and there?
Ahab chose not to notice when his wife worked behind the scenes. Many men turn
their heads when they see their wives stepping out of their God-given role.
Jezebel knew that she was not the rightful head, so she invoked her husband's
name to give her word authority. Did you ever hears it said, "Oh, my husband
will not let me do that," when you knew in truth he really would not care? It is
a way to maintain control and stop those who would question you. When a woman
does this, she stops any ministry God has to her.
Jezebel was deeply concerned about spiritual matters and took steps to help
promote her spiritual leaders. In the process, she provoked her husband to
destroy those in spiritual authority she did not like. Have you ever seen women
influencing their husbands to think evil of those in authority because you did
not like something about them? When a woman comes to this place she might as
well change her name to "Jezebel."
The fact is that man is made in such a way that he has no defense against the
love of a righteous wife, but if he falls into the end of a Jezebel, truly is
life will be hell on earth.
Unfortunately for men, with the advent of Democracy and the so called
egalitarian approach there are billions of Jezebels in the world and the once
manly men have been reduced to weak type of Ahab's, they have been mentally
emasculated and the world is in deep decadence because of that, as we see today.
This spirit is a focal point of many churches. We are told several times about
the "Queen of Heaven" in Jeremiah but if we read the context carefully, we will
see that the queen of heaven is NOT a saint....it is a demon as Jeremiah talks
about burning incense to her and he states it is a false god!
Although I do believe the spirit of Jezebel is one of the strongest demons we
face, she can be defeated. Are you attending a church with a female pastor? It
has fallen to this evil spirit! This evil spirit has invaded most of our churches today. She has tried to invade SM (yes we do have female moderators but each of them are under our authority and although they are not "yes" people, they do not challenge either myself or Tim, but they will help us keep balanced and I thank them for that. In reality, the few moderators we have had that have had a jezebel spirit...have been men.
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