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Internet Hoaxes Intended to Demonize ALL Men?

I am sure you have gotten them. They start out

READ this. It may save your life or that of your mother, sister, daughter, friend.

They end with:

I'd like you to forward this to all the women you know.

I was going to send this to the ladies only, but guys, if you love your mothers, wives, sisters, daughters, etc., you may want to pass it onto them, as well.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it's better to be safe than sorry.

I just got another one of those today but I am replying to this one. I think each of us need to start doing that too by replying to ALL in our replies.

This is one I got today: My reply is below it after the /////////  and in
across the page:

READ this. It may save your life or that of your mother, sister, daughter, friend.
We can now add to the list of victims the retired 77 yr. old TCU professor from Ft Worth whose body was found last week in Oklahoma--and the 11 yr. old in Sarasota, FL. Because of these recent abductions in daylight hours, refresh yourself of these things to do in an emergency situation...This is for you, and for you to share with your wife, your children, everyone you know.

After reading these 9 crucial tips, forward them to someone you care about. It never hurts to be careful in this crazy world we live in.

1 . Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do!

2. Learned this from a tourist guide in New Orleans. If a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you....chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you, and he will go for the wallet/purse.

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car, kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won't see you, but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping, eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON'T DO THIS!) The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side, put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR, LOCK THE DOORS AND LEAVE.

a. If someone is in the car with a gun to your head DO NOT DRIVE OFF, repeat: DO NOT DRIVE OFF! Instead gun the engine and speed into anything, wrecking the car. Your Air Bag will save you. If the person is in the back seat they will get the worst of it. As soon as
the car crashes bail out and run. It is better than having them find your body in a remote location.

5 . A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:
A.) Be aware: look around you, look into your car, at the passenger side floor, and in the back seat
B.) If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.
C.) Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out.

IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot. This is especially true at NIGHT!)

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN, Preferably ! in a zig-zag pattern!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP . It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good- looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often
asked "for help" into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

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9. Another Safety Point: Someone just told me that her friend heard a crying baby on her porch the night before last, and she called the police because it was late and she thought it was weird. The police told her "Whatever you do, DO NOT open the door."

The lady then said that it sounded like the baby had crawled near a window, and she was worried that it would crawl to the street and get run over. The policeman said, "We already have a unit on the way, whatever you do, DO NOT open the door." He told her that they
think a serial killer has a baby's cry recorded and uses it to coax women out of their homes thinking that someone dropped off a baby He said they have not verified it, but have had several calls by women saying that they hear baby's cries outside their doors when they're
home alone at night.

Please pass this on and DO NOT open the door for a crying baby ---- This e-mail should probably be taken seriously because the Crying Baby theory was mentioned on America's Most Wanted this past Saturday when they profiled the serial killer in Louisiana.

I'd like you to forward this to all the women you know. It may save a life. A candle is not dimmed by lighting another candle. I was going to send this to the ladies only, but guys, if you love your mothers, wives, sisters, daughters, etc., you may want to pass it onto them, as well.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it's better to be safe than sorry.


I have gotten many of these "tips" They are always given to women. I guess men are never attacked are they? In reality, most of the victims of crime are men. They all appear to want to  get women to fear all men yet most men would actually give their own live to save a woman even one he does not know.

These forwards never recognize that women can be violent too. If you are pregnant, you sure better watch out for women who want your unborn baby. I have seen news reports of several women who had their unborn babies cut from their womb and it has always been by other
women. Why have I never seen a warning about this?

I do have to wonder if these things are not started by radical feminist to demonize all men and to get women to fear every male. After all, they do tell us that every man is a rapist don't they?

In this list, I know of a couple that are a hoax. The crying baby did not happen. Here is a list from Truth or Fiction which I have seen and I have had each one of these sent to be to tell me to warning my wife, sister, great great grandma and my Aunt Tilley to watch for these evil men.

Last year, there were actual news articles about a woman that was hitchhiking. When men gave her a ride, she would demand money from them or she would accuse them of molesting or even raping her. She did get money many times, but she did get caught. I do wonder why we never see these "internet warnings to tell men to watch out for women? We do all know how easy it would be for men to be accused.

In reality, I do think it is wise for BOTH men and women to use caution. This would apply to interacting with any stranger but if we allow ourselves to be crippled by this fear, we have all lost. The Bible tells us to be wise as serpents and gentle as doves. It also tells us that SIN or evil is a HUMAN problem, not a gender problem. There IS a solution to this...

This is a list of just some of the internet warnings I have gotten that were very much like this...they are ALL  hoaxes.

The killer who uses the sound of a crying baby to lure victims-Fiction!

Warning About SweetCaliGuy4evr, a killer online-Fiction!

The Kidnap Warning in Deerfield Township in Ohio

New method being used by carjackers-Fiction!

Gang members hiding in the back seats of cars to kidnap women- Fiction!

Perfume peddlers using ether to knock people out and rob them- Fiction

The killer who offers to help change flat tires at malls-Fiction!

The killer who uses a $5 bill to lure victims-Fiction!

Abductions of women from shopping malls-Fiction!

Woman in Main who was drugged and raped-Fiction!

Car Jackers who leave a piece of paper on your rear window-Fiction!

Please notice each of these are aimed at warning women about men yet I have seldom seen warnings about real threats to men.  Warnings such as this real advertisement that was on the Shattered Men interactive group's home page:

I find it ironic that THIS ad was on a site for abused men. The ad states: "Abusive Husband? Protect yourself now. Women learn the secrets that guarantee you a successful divorce

(PLEASE if you do want to check this link out, if possible find it on the home page to click on it to assure they will at least have to pay extra charges for the click through)

This is just a small part of the information on the link.

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But I'm not going to charge anywhere close to that because I want any woman who is serious and earnest about escaping an unhappy relationship with her financial future intact, to be able to afford my book. That's why the entire "Divorce Secrets" system is only $79  
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Folks...there is only one way I know they can do this....I contend that this book is a primer on how to FALSELY accuse their husband of abuse!

Again, the real solution to this problem:

We also want to strengthen problem marriages by reminding us of the duties of a husband and wife in  MARRIAGE...HIS DUTIES....HER DUTIES

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